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2023.06.04 06:56 liberty4now Anon encounters an alien
2023.06.04 06:56 ThrowRA1234222 I (20M) feel like I am missing out by being with my gf (20F). Do I just keep in how I feel and hope that it passes over?
This was hard to sum up in one sentence for the title so I will do a better job explaining it here:I'm currently a 2nd year at a major US state university. I met my now current gf of 18 months during the first week of school. In high school I did have some experience with some other girls but it never went past casual making out at parties. My gf had a couple bfs in high school and a couple sexual encounters. When we started dating I lost my virginity to her and overall have been having a great time with her. I completely love her and feel like she is my best friend because it feels so natural to talk to her and I don't think anyone understands me like her. But now here's the problem. I would never want to lose her because I am truly happy but recently a lot of my friends have became single and I get the "grass is always greener on the other side" thoughts. I feel like I didn't get the time to experiment and try different things and honestly just have sex with different people. Our sex life is great already, I just get thoughts of what it would be like to be single again and I don't want to find myself in 5 years wondering if I missed my time to be free. I know I'll never find someone like her again and would honestly marry her but I don't want to resent her in the future for unknowingly holding me back.
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2023.06.04 06:55 Sufficient_Canary_54 Got “fired” asking for Opinions
So I started a HVAC job and got fired / laid off.
I was working at a really shitty residential company. I say shitty because it was really ghetto, they told me I was going start pay a X and got paid Y.(less)
I also say shitty because they are getting law suited for 100k because of not paying employees while on call.
So I was suppose to be watching and learning, because that was what I was told to do, the job was simple and I was ready I knew what to do, I was just waiting to get my own van.
Friday morning comes, I comes in extra early as usual, everything is a bit tense, the guys that dick ride the boss are extremely serious and quite. The previous day I was riding around with the guy that dick rides the boss and everything was going well, I did the maintenance by myself and asked him how I did and he told me fine.
Now back to the early Friday morning, the bosses bitch comes out his office( probably licking his balls.) and then the boss right behind him, boss tells me he wants to talk to me brings me in a private room and tells me that he’s going have to lay me off because I wasn’t catching on, ( only there a month) and that also the install guys didn’t want me, they would rather have other helpers, I only did 1 install with a really incompetent guy, i was told to take back and then bring stuff back from the truck cause he kept forgetting what to do, but I did what I was told, the whole thing was a shit show we were missing tools, the split system setup was not how we were told, mind you this guy also ended up stealing tools from me😂 just wire strippers and service wrench, I didn’t really mind it tho he probably needed that cash he was fighting a DUI and divorce.
Do you think I fucked up or do you think I got laid off because of envious, jealous people and not enough money to train me anymore because of the law suit?
Honestly I didn’t really care about getting fired, I wasn’t going beg him not to fire me, the boss was a dickhead, he physically pushed me in the first weeks of working there, and would scream and treat me like a dog, so it’s fuck him.
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2023.06.04 06:55 ChxrriesA I need advice on big life change
Hello, I don't really know what I'm doing here. I guess I'm just lost and need some advice to the point I'm coming here. Tw: mental health stuff? Nothing too heavy but just in case I guess?
I'm moving in a trailer with my pregnant mom, her boyfriend, and his son very soon and I'm extremely uncomfortable and anxious about it. I don't really have a choice as I have no where else to go until I can get back on my feet with getting a job and drivers license (I'm 19 and female I forgot to mention.) I already know it's going to be extremely small and tight fitting as I lived in a trailer when I was little plus my 2 little brothers will be staying every other week for 7 days along with my mom's bf daughter visiting every once and a while.
I've only met my mom's bf a couple of times and he hasn't given the greatest impression to me but I've never met his kids. I'm also having a hard time mentally as I have medically diagnosed mental illnesses and have been going through some bad life changes that are out of my control since December 2021. I literally just found out my mom was 3 months pregnant a few days ago.Ive been trying to get therapy again but stuff keeps getting in the way especially financially even online so for now I'm resorting to here which admittedly isn't the best choice but at this point I don't know what else to do. I only have one friend which is online since I've been online school so I haven't really had a chance to make any real life friends.
My advice need is what to do to help calm myself? I'm very anxious living in a small space with people especially men I don't know and also while going through a terrible depression. I'm trying to keep everything I've gone/going through light As i can as I don't want it to be too dark/triggering to people? I honestly just feel hopleless and like everything is falling apart and I can't fix it.
(I would also appreciate if people don't comment anything negative regarding mental health and the 'not all men thing' as I know not all men are bad but I'm still careful/anxious. Also my first time using Reddit.)
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2023.06.04 06:55 Ok-Recover-9860 3 weeks clean
3 weeks clean and im doin really good considering. (all day dab habit, 37 m) but im still having problems with this low frequency vibration in my apartment. its driving me nuts and i cant tell if its my neighbour or outside or the building or a combination but it causes me to literaly convulse sometimes when im trying to sleep. i had a disagreement with my neighbour and im convinced she might be doing this because it started when she moved in and i heard her unplug something that stopped it. i feel and sound paranoid and everyone scoffs at me of course. advice for that would be nice but i know its kinda unrelated. has anyone had any problem with this while smoking or quitting. being super sensitive to sound or physical vibrations? its better now that i quit but i dono if its a me problem or what.
im also really nervous to start a job on monday as well as ive been doing uber eats for years and with my pot habit im so isolated and antisocial and overly sensitive to everything. im afraid theyre going to be mean and im going to flip out at someone or just feel like crap. how do i get tougher skin? :(. im really having a lot of trouble with anger and i scare myself soemtimes. i duno what im looking to hear from you all but i always lurk this page and you all seem really nice and im looking for support.
thanks very much for reading.
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2023.06.04 06:55 SilentConsequence892 Leaving my current internship for a summer one
I was fortunate to score an I.T internship with the city and be hired back again. They set it up so that I can stay on board as long as I want with the possibility of being full-time after I graduate. However, before getting this offer, I was unemployed and was able to get the opportunity to get a summer internship for this year. This one is with Deloitte and I’ll be getting more pay, bonus pay, company card, and be able to travel a lot. It will focus more on the IT and Cybersecurity aspect of technology which is great because my major is Cybersecurity. The only concern I have is that the reviews for Deloitte aren’t the best and the work/life balance sucks. While at my current job, that’s not an issue and I have a great team and support system. I’m nervous of which internship I should go for and which one will help me grow into my career. In my current internship I wonder if I’m growing enough, but in the other, I don’t know if it will be a great opportunity either. Any advice would be great on this!
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2023.06.04 06:55 IAmNotAFetish I need a job paying more money ASAP
I currently wait tables and make about $300 a week on average at a bbq restaurant. During the week,the restaurant is not super busy. On weekends, we get"rushes" where it will be busy for a few hours and steady or dead the rest of the time. They force me to work open to close (1030am-9pm) every weekend and usually on a weekend day I only make $100 in tips.
Anyway, I have only had this job for a month and hate waiting tables and feel like it is not for me. I had thought about getting another waiter job in the meantime but most restaurants won't hire a server with only a month of serving experience and I am not sure what restaurants in my area get better tips.
I also want something with a more steady income that doesn't pay low wages and expect you to rely on tips for your income. How do I get another job (preferably not serving) fast? Any advice? I am trying to rent a room and was turned down by a landlord due to not having a steady income or what they consider a steady income.I can't continue to survive on 300 a week.
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2023.06.04 06:54 Gel_Cheetos15 Guys at work have crush on me
23/f. Married. So, it’s been a month since I’ve been working at my new job and I’ve had some guys at work tried to ask me out and I feel like most of them follows a look at me all the time. My work look is not my best look but why??? Could it be because I’m new?
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2023.06.04 06:54 magnusmagnifico 29 [M4M] WEEKEND MUKBANG
Satisfy my cravings
LF: Side fun and someone to eat
Loves giving pleasure to str8 curious men but open to other gay men out there.
Let’s give pleasure to each other. Labanan sa kama at kainin kita malala 🥵🥵🥵
Please be 23 and up and preferably near Manila, QC or willing to travel or share cost.
If you’re G, slide into my DMs and send me your ASL or something interesting about you.
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2023.06.04 06:54 malcolm58 HDF Energy reveals proposal to build hydrogen fuel cell factory at old Holden car factory at Elizabeth
High-power hydrogen fuel cells would be manufactured at the old Holden car factory site, creating more than 1000 jobs during construction, under a new proposal put forward by a global hydrogen energy company. HDF Energy is bidding to provide the cells for the state government’s Hydrogen Jobs Plan project
and, if selected, plans to build a factory in the northern suburbs. The company’s preferred option is to re-purpose a 10,000-square-metre section of Lionsgate Business Park at Elizabeth. The facility would replicate HDF’s fuel cell factory built on a former Ford site near Bordeaux, France, which has been touted as the first of its kind.
The project would employ 1350 workers over a three-year construction period, then 50 permanent staff once the factory is operational. As well as the government’s $593m Whyalla hydrogen power plant, the Lionsgate facility would produce fuel cells for the mining and transport sectors, and for export across the Asia-Pacific. It would provide 100 per cent emission-free hydrogen power from the start of operation. HDF Energy general manager of Australia, David Clement, said the proposal would also produce energy at a lower cost.
“Our proposal provides low-cost energy for South Australians and positions the state as a world-leading exporter of hydrogen technology,” he said. “Our fuel cell technology costs less to construct, uses less hydrogen to produce more power, and will provide ongoing manufacturing jobs here in Adelaide. “The only things they are emit are power and pure H2O – no CO2, no NOx, no emissions at all, from day one.”
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2023.06.04 06:54 AdHonest8905 Marriage Visa
Hello, I was hoping to find a partner by now 😔 to marry me so I can stay in the UK forever. I work as a nanny and is next to impossible to be sponsored that way. My visa expires in a year. Any advice on how I can stay? Get a new/more legit job? Or is anyone willing to marry me hehe. Like 90 day fiancé type ish ✨🙃
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2023.06.04 06:53 likkleSosa I (21M) feel like there is mixed emotions (19F)
I (21M) known this girl (19F) for over 5 months from college and we really started to talk seriously last month.
It was kind of unexpecting because she really went off in the beginning by saying things that I found sensitive (in a good way). I was told that I was perfect for her and how she barely knew me and I treat her better than the guys she’s been with along with calling me “love”, “babe” and so forth. Mind you this is the 2nd week of actually getting to talk to each other.
We finally decide to hang out and we talked endlessly. We both find it interesting on how we were so alike and have the same interests. During that time, we both expressed how much we liked each-other and wanted something serious in the future. She admitted to liking me since the beginning of the semester.
The bad side is that she expressed how she’s going through serious shit. One of them is being in an accident; totalling her car. Then she mentioned something about a restraining order on some guy. Though there are things I strongly believe she isn’t telling…
Couple days go by and she leaves my messages on delivered and deletes me off Snapchat. I texted her a week later and asked what was up and she finally responded but with a weak excuse saying that everything was going downhill in her life.
I would see her on campus everyday and we seemed like complete strangers. I decided to forget it and move on and not talk to her but then she finds me a couple days later and nearly breaks down asking for a hug; apologizing.
I get invited to go to some club with her and we’re dancing, kissing, drinking and all that. When it was over, we found a chill spot to talk about what was going on and as I mentioned, she states she’s going through something but won’t tell me what. I asked if I was moving too fast and if I needed to back off, she says no.
We called it a night, hugged and I told her to text me. It’s been 3 days, no text. Basically, I’m confused with what just happened over the past month. I don’t know how you go from loving someone deeply to straight up ghost mode with rollercoaster feelings.
Should I reach out or just call it quits?
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2023.06.04 06:53 miryazdza [IWantOut] 20M Bahrain -> Germany
I'm in a pretty dire situation in my life, I'm a high school graduate, could never really pursue further studies since I'm a Pakistani national and the tuition fee for college is 10x more than the expats plus the quality of education isn't good either. I've been looking into a few countries to study Commerce related subjects such as Finance and Germany seems to be the best one for me, I already know bits of German and as far as I can remember learning it was pretty easy since I'm good at learning languages. My question is, what's the process of applying to a German university like? What documents and paperwork do I need to get done? I've looked it up online but most of the sites were German and it was a real pain. Also, are there any job prospects for high school grads? Will I be able to support myself solely by working part-time? I feel like I'm stuck and I need help. I know the details I've provided aren't of much help, I'll be happy to provide you with more information so you'd be able to understand. Many thanks!
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2023.06.04 06:52 leoc823 Any experiences with FrontDoor app?
Heard an advertisement today for the FrontDoor app. Apparently the focus is videochatting with experts to consult on a problem before booking a job. I'm a service electrician who fortes in personal customer service so it intrigued me, but I'm also nervous after my experiences with Home Advisor, etc.
Anybody used this before?
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2023.06.04 06:52 bimbo_wannabe_ Funny Hijab Story.
So I just wanted to share this story, cause I thought it make make some of you giggle.
A bit of background first. I am a revert of 6 years. I converted in 2017, wore hijab for three years, then when Covid hit, I kind of had a crisis of faith. I stopped wearing hijab, stopped a lot of things actually. Inshallah, I will be forgiven for them, but anyway. Trying to get back on the Deen.
So I recently, in the last few months, got in a very bad place (well, worse than it already was, but I digress) and began praying again, and by that I mean the Christian version of praying that I grew up with. I prayed to find some way out of the financial hole I was in.
One day, I stopped at a gas station I have frequented for some years since having moved here. New people had bought the store some time ago but I was never very familiar with them. An older Pakistani man was on the register, and when he rang me up, he explained that he had to void out the ticket because it had rung my item three times. I could tell he wasn't the most computer efficient person, being an older gentleman, so I laughed and said I wasn't worried about it because I know how it goes. Then he said it wasn't him, it was the scanner, and I said, yeah I know, I worked at 7Eleven for six years and I know how the scanners are. They stick when you want to ring multiple, and ring single items twice just cause they have an attitude.
And, wallahi, sisters this man looked at me and said "oh, you worked at 7Eleven, do you want a job?"
I stood there for a full 30 seconds just going Uhhhh, and then I was like, I guess. So I gave him my number and I had a job as a manager two days later.
Somehow, after about 5 years being back out of the gas station life, it only took two days to be almost fully in the swing of things again. It all came back to me.
Anyway, I've worked like the last three months there. There's been some ups and downs. I had to assert myself with the son a few times... Our Prophet PBUH was never one to use obscene language with people, but I am not the best among us, so I have to admit there were some impolite words used between the two of us, on his side first and in my side responding, and we've had a few blowups since then but mostly he is a good guy, and if anything, he knows I won't let him walk over me so now he treats me as an equal.
Bless his heart, he's as flighty as they come. He's the eleventh child so his parents kind of left him to his own devices, and I've had to tell the poor child everything from how to microwave a chicken to how to make chicken biryani (my stepmother was from Bangladesh and made it for us a lot) to the fact that Cascade might come in a pod but it's not laundry detergent, it's for a dishwasher. This is completely off topic but I just thought that was hilarious and had to share.
Anyway, back on topic. I was still going back to my Christian roots, and things weren't going the best. Being as they are a Muslim family, of course there was some talk of Ramadan being as it was that month, so I just randomly opened an old Playlist I had with some Islamic lectures I had listened to a million times, which was perfect because I could easily fall asleep without my brain attempting to listen hard to the video because I had listened so much my brain was like ah yes, background noise, is sleep time, zzzzzzz.
I had a dream. I can't tell you any details, unlike most of my dreams which I remember quite vividly, I can't tell you anything I saw. All I can remember about the dream is that I was told that of course I was having hardship in my life, I'd found the path and turned back.
I was kind of pensive for a few days, but eventually I decided I was going to try and do right again. I was considerably nervous considering they had no idea I was Muslim (my coworker didn't believe me that I was until I showed him my Muslim Pro app that said my member joined date was June 16, 2017) and also I am fairly certain I am the only white Muslim girl in the town. I live in a farming community in rural Virginia, Bible Belt territory, so I was very scared about wearing hijab again. I kind of eased into it and started wearing a turban, but I forgot how much they hurt my ears, so eventually sheer physical discomfort pushed me into wearing hijab again.
I've been back to wearing it about a month now, and not only has not a single person given me an issue about it, I was extremely shocked to discover there is a sizeable Muslim population in my town. The only problem is everyone thinks I am my coworker's wife, which I don't really get but whatever, how I can only been there for three months and somehow also married to him, I find confusing.
Anyway, at work today I went outside to have a break. I have both arthritis and fibromyalgia, my right hip has arthritis because that hip likes to randomly pop out of that socket and that joint is permanently angry and the rest of the lovely full body pain is fibro. Being back on my feet on concrete is not the easiest on my pain, so periodically I have to sit down on the ground and sit crossleg to stretch my hip out and it was a lovely day so I went outside.
Break done, I stood up and tried to go back inside, which didn't really work because...
MY HIJAB ATE ME.
The wind picked up at just that time, and the first two loops of my hijab flipped forward and ATE MY FACE.
It took an entire literal minute to find my way out of my hijab, sisters. Now I wear a snap hijab under my scarf, and the bottom piece of my hijab was still in place, so you know, neither my hair nor neck was showing but it was still embarrassing as all get out.
I couldn't find the OPENING. Meanwhile my other coworker, not the flighty one, was laughing at me because he was changing the trash and here I was being eaten by a headscarf.
I kind of feel proud of my hijab pinning ability, though, as I didn't even have to adjust it once I got it flipped back over my head. Didn't move an inch.
Anyway, any of ya'll ever get eaten by a hijab?
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2023.06.04 06:52 Max_geekout Frankenstein's Army (2013) is one of the most genius and truly horrific movies I have seen in a long while
It has some of the best mostesteampunk designs that I have ever seen and doubt I will see something as genius again. I think the film did a great job with the plot of an alternate timeline and reality, as well as the horrific ending. Inhuman screaming has always made me feel genuinely uneasy.
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2023.06.04 06:51 Illustrious-Piece-53 Pecs
So we’re looking at getting my kid (4 years old) an AAC device but he has a PECs book to start right now. I took it to the daycare and explained how everything works and when I went to pick him up from his little class they said at the office that it had been used and how great it was.. blah blah.. he’s doing so well with it. Except it was sitting on top of his cubby not touched for a week and it’s too high for him to reach. The only reason I know that is because there were old artwork papers on top of it that hadn’t moved. So the teacher is lying to the director and assistant director telling me all about it being used and I’m pissed.
That is his voice.
Not for everything but many many things.
He’s not even there a full day 15 hours a week after am preschool, and we’re paying almost $1000/month. It’s ridiculous. I also feel like it’s just another way to passively ostracize him. And they don’t really pay much attention to him. He’s not disruptive any more than any other 4 year old . He doesn’t interact with them but will parallel play. I feel like it’s such a colossal waste of time and money. I’m trapped at a job that’s stressful but pays a big portion of the mortgage and other bills ugh 😩
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2023.06.04 06:50 Salt-Technician-273 If you are looking for a job email me at [email protected]
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2023.06.04 06:50 Nolan6868 The last act is amazing (no spoilers)
Act 6 took me from enjoying the game to absolutely loving this game. Blizzard did an amazing job. I could not stop playing since Thursday lol Also that cutscene. Holy fucking shit. I was not expecting this out of this game. Can't wait for endgame!
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2023.06.04 06:49 JNSC0504 UPOU: HD vs CTC (honorable dismissal vs certificate of transfer credentials)
Hello fellow UPOU transferees!
I came from another non-UP univ and received an email from UPOU asking me to send Certificate of Transfer Credentials.
Btw, I mailed them my Honorable dismissal na po.
Sa previous univ ko honorable dismissal is same lang sa certificate of transfer credentials, so they can't give me CTC kasi same lang daw sila ni HD
naguhulahan talaga ako :(( help po 😭
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2023.06.04 06:49 Fuzzy-Bat8678 My boyfriend is convinced that I’m lying
Honestly I’ve lied to him multiple times and have ended up coming clean so it’s kind of ruined my credibility. For a backstory, we’ve been together on and off for 5 years, he has been emotionally, verbally, and financially abusive for this whole time. He’s spent the better part of our relationship cheating and lying about it. Just within the last few months, he’s been saying that he is loyal to me. With this has come a new level of controlling behavior, being interrogated, not being able to really do much, etc.
The problem is, after 5 years of going through infidelities, I stopped taking our relationship seriously. I moved states while we were broken up to get away from the relationship, and we ended up back together in a long distance relationship. During this time, I’ve flirted with guys, gone out when we weren’t together, and lied to him about all of this including other little white lies that have added up. I am not innocent in this relationship, however I do consider my offenses to be more mild than his (for example, he got someone pregnant when I moved states and more).
Recently, I lied about my male coworker calling me because I knew he would interrogate me and assume more was going on than a simple phone call. Lying is never okay so I’m not trying to justify it. He ended up knowing that I was lying which started his 3 day long tirade of being questioned and me being told that there is more that I’m lying about. This is not the first time he’s done this. Every time, I think of any possible thing that I haven’t told him to appease him and just to make it stop. This has made me look like I’m hiding things from him, when certain things I just don’t feel the need to tell him. I’ve admitted to flirting with a few of my coworkers, while we were in a relationship and not.
This time, he’s told me that if I don’t quit my job immediately and get a plane ticket back to my hometown to live with him that we are done. I spent all day going back and forth, I don’t want to live there and I don’t want to leave the opportunities I have in my new state. However I truly love him and I don’t want to lose him. I ended up going into my scheduled shift which caused hell to break loose. He told me the only way he would forgive me for going to work is if I tell him the full truth. I told him I would tell him anything he wanted to know. He started asking me about the people I’ve kissed, or gotten physical at all with in my new home state. I haven’t done any of these things with anyone. He won’t believe me and just blocked me because “I’m a pathological liar”.
I’m sad but I’m also kind of relieved. I don’t want to let him go yet but it’s gotten to a pivotal point in our relationship where my whole entire future could be on the line. Has anyone been through anything similar?
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